Know Him

The end of the school year always makes me nostalgic. Graduations are a time to celebrate accomplishments, revel in memories, and recognize growth that’s taken place in a student’s life. This season usually prompts me to make unique cards for friends and family members celebrating milestones. When I’m inspired, I make ones that include old photos and memories from a graduate’s childhood. The more time I’ve spent with someone, the more detailed I can be with including fun facts I know about the person. I love the looks of delight on their faces when what I’ve created brings back forgotten moments or includes some aspect of their lives they didn’t realize I knew.

As I gave a funny homemade card to a longtime family friend recently, I thought about how I’d been able to conjure up so many details that would make him smile. I realized that this boy has been around our family since birth. I’ve watched and participated in his upbringing. I’ve seen his triumphs and his less than shining moments. Because I am aware of his habits, interests, and quirks, it was fun and easy to make a card for him.

Although it may sound strange, I thought of those homemade cards recently in relation to our prayer lives. Our ability to connect and engage with God on a deep level directly correlates to how well we know Him. It’s just like a human relationship– the more time we spend with Him and the more intentional we are, the richer our conversations become.

I think about moments when I’ve been in a group with people praying aloud. Sometimes I’m amazed at what they say. It’s not their eloquence or the breadth of their vocabulary, but their familiarity with God and His ways. They talk to Him about things I would never think to bring up in prayer. Maybe you know someone like this too– a person whose prayers are so deep and complete you feel like there’s no need for you to say more. It’s possible you may even feel a tiny bit inadequate or self-conscious praying in front of them. If you’re prone to comparing your prayers to others, it may help to shift your perspective.

When you’re intimidated to speak after hearing someone else pray, you’re playing right into the hands of the enemy. There are few things he probably celebrates more than a child of God feeling too inadequate and self-conscious to talk with his or her Heavenly Father. Remember, prayer isn’t a competition to see who can be the most articulate, but an opportunity to communicate directly with your Maker. There is no such thing as being “good” or “bad” at prayer. The only thing that may be holding you back from having deeper, richer prayer life is you. 

Knowing God and His Word are the keys to having vibrant and powerful communication with Him. And there’s no better place to learn about prayer than from people in Scripture who walked and talked with the Lord. Conversations between God and faithful followers run throughout the Old and New Testaments. Over the next few weeks, we’ll look at some familiar characters like Moses and David and some lesser known ones like Nehemiah and Jehoshaphat. We’ll examine prayers of Jesus, Paul, and other founders of the New Testament church. Through them, I hope we’ll be inspired to grow in our personal dialogues with God and to recognize “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” (James 5:16b, NIV) Beyond that, it’s my goal for us to apply what we’re learning so that we can experience the richness of a deep and impactful prayer life. 

God knows us fully. Because He’s infinite, we can spend our lives cultivating a relationship with Him, yet always have more to discover. As we seek Him consistently, our ability to align with His will and to communicate authentically will plunge ever deeper.

If you want to keep growing in your prayer life, I hope you’ll follow along as we discover what we can learn from those who walked with God. In the meantime, let Tauren Wells’ song “Known” remind you that God knows you fully. Then, let it inspire you to know Him more every day.