Category: Forgiveness

Passion of the King: Matthew 27-28

This week I have the daunting privilege of teaching on Matthew chapters 27-28 covering Jesus’ crucifixion, resurrection and the Great Commission. Speaking on such weighty topics in a fixed amount of time means I can’t include many of the interesting things I learned while diving into these chapters. So, today’s post includes some  information that enhanced my understanding of the text. Use the bold headings to find the topics that interest you. (The link to my teaching will be on the “videos” page of my website when it’s available.)

Chapter 27:

Judas Returns the Thirty Pieces of Silver

When Judas changes his mind and returns the 30 pieces of silver the Jewish leaders paid him to betray Jesus, he confesses, “I have sinned…for I have betrayed innocent blood.” The chief priests reply, “What is that to us?…That’s your responsibility.” (27:4, NIV) The lack of concern for an innocent man being condemned and for another man confessing his sin shows just how far the religious leaders have veered from being the spiritual shepherds of the children of Israel. They care only about ensuring that the threat to their power will be eliminated with the crucifixion of Jesus. Like them, tunnel vision and personal pride often prevent us from seeing our shortcomings or the hurt we cause others.

His Blood Be on Our Heads

A commentary I read explains this well: “Pilate believed Jesus was innocent and had not committed a crime deserving crucifixion, so he tried to convince the Jews of this. Matthew 27:24 notes, ‘So when Pilate saw that he was gaining nothing, but rather that a riot was beginning, he took water and washed his hands before the crowd, saying, ‘I am innocent of this man’s blood; see to it yourselves.’ The Jews were adamant about crucifying Jesus and were willing to accept the blame and consequences for it, including punishment upon their own children. At this point, Pilate gave in to their demands and allowed the crucifixion to proceed.”

The commentary continues, “Those who sought the death of Jesus desired it so much they were willing to accept the consequences upon them and their children for it. This is in contrast with Pilate, who sought release from this responsibility, but who still gave in and had Jesus crucified. Both Jews and Gentiles were involved in the death of Jesus, yet Jesus died so all people would have the opportunity to be saved (John 3:16–18). We are called to respond to the opportunity to believe in Jesus and His salvation, recognizing that His sacrifice was made for all of humanity (Galatians 3:25–29; 2 Peter 3:8–13; 1 John 2:2).”1

Jen Wilkin points out the ironic twist that Jesus’ blood is on the heads of all who confess their sin, acknowledge the atoning sacrifice He made in their place, and receive forgiveness from the Lord. What was meant as a curse became a blessing.

Mocking Turns to Awe

Roman soldiers gather to mock Jesus before His crucifixion. “They stripped him and put a scarlet robe on him, and then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on his head. They put a staff in his right hand. Then they knelt in front of him and mocked him. ’Hail, king of the Jews!’ they said.” (27:28-29, NIV) Pretending to bow down in worship, they make Jesus the butt of a cruel and vicious joke. Yet a few hours later “When the centurion and those with him who were guarding Jesus saw the earthquake and all that had happened, they were terrified, and exclaimed, ‘Surely he was the Son of God!’” (27:54, NIV) Worship offered in jest becomes genuine when the soldiers recognize Jesus is who He claimed to be.

Simon of Cyrene Helps Carry the Cross

Jen Wilkin highlights the absence of the disciples in this moment when Jesus’ physical strength gives out. He told His followers “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me” but they desert their Rabbi and Savior at His moment of greatest anguish. (Matthew 16:24, NIV) When He needs the supportive presence of His closest followers and literal help carrying His cross, they are nowhere to be found. Roman soldiers force a stranger in the crowd to step in where Jesus’ disciples fail Him. Despite this, He still refers to the disciples as His brothers and continues in relationship with them after His resurrection (28:10). This is an incredible picture of His grace and forgiveness.

Women from Galilee

Matthew mentions women witnessing Jesus’ death, burial, and resurrection several times throughout these chapters (27:55-56, 61, 28:1-10). While the women are powerless to change the circumstances, their presence communicates a deep love and devotion to Jesus. Peter and the rest of the male disciples have deserted Him, but Jesus likely takes comfort in the presence of faithful women who have followed and supported Him throughout His ministry.

Women are the first to arrive at the tomb after the Sabbath and Jesus appears to women first after His resurrection. He tells them to bear witness to others about what has happened. Jen Wilkin points out that at a time in history and culture when the voices of women were devalued by society, Jesus entrusts them with this sacred task, and they carry it out without delay.

Temple Curtain Tearing

Part of mourning in the Jewish faith is a ritual called “kriah” which is a physical act of tearing clothing meant to show the metaphorical tear in the heart that occurs at the death of a loved one. The tear in the temple curtain was an outward symbol of the deep grief of the Father over the sin of the world and the crucifixion of His son to atone for it. At the same time, the tear represented new and direct access to the Lord without the need for priests as an intermediary or the temple as the place for sacrifice. With the death of Christ, animal sacrifices would no longer be necessary because Jesus atoned for sin once and for all (Hebrews 10:1-14).

Joseph of Arimathea

Matthew describes Joseph as “a rich man” who had become a disciple of Jesus. Joseph honors Jesus by preparing His body for burial before the Sabbath and laying it in “his own new tomb that he had cut out of the rock.” (27:60, NIV) Jen Wilkin comments that this provides additional perspective for the story of the rich young man in Matthew 19 who couldn’t part with his wealth to follow Jesus. Being rich wasn’t the problem, it was that “he didn’t know how to relate to wealth in a way that allowed him to serve the Lord, Christ.”2 In contrast, Joseph uses his wealth to meet a felt need and honor the Lord.

 Chapter 28

The First Day of the Week

Matthew highlights that the resurrection takes place after the Sabbath, on the first day of the week. This is not a coincidence but is symbolic, revealing it is the dawn of a new era; a new thing is happening. It is the first day of a new age. The resurrection changes everything.3

 They Worshipped Him, But Some Doubted

After the resurrection, “The eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go.When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted.” (28:16-17, NIV) There is no shame in doubting—even the disciples did it in the presence of the risen Jesus. It’s healthy and wise to acknowledge doubt and to grapple with hard questions. Hearing how others have dealt with it can build our faith and forge meaningful connections between people. In contrast, avoiding difficult questions and letting doubt linger can lead to feelings of isolation, instability, and cynicism. Doubt and faith are not mutually exclusive.

The Great Commission

Matthew closes his gospel with Jesus’ final instructions to His disciples: “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (28:18b-20, NIV)

 In this powerful statement Jesus reveals the culmination of so many promises and prophecies. Here are a few of the most crucial ones:

-Image Bearers of God: The Lord created humans to be a representation of Him: “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27, NIV) Just as humans bear the image of God, followers of Christ take on His character and bear His image to the world.

-The Cultural Mandate from Genesis 1:28: “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.” Similarly, Jesus commissions His followers to take His authority and advance His kingdom on earth by sharing the gospel and making disciples. Just as intimacy between Adam and Eve multiplied the human race, intimacy with Christ produces spiritual fruit that multiplies His disciples.

-The Head Crusher: When Adam and Eve rebel, they unknowingly give authority over the earth to the enemy and taint God’s perfect world with sin. In His mercy, the Lord promises He will one day save the world through Eve’s offspring. To the deceiving serpent, the Lord pronounces this curse: “I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.” (Genesis 3:15 NIV) At the crucifixion the enemy strikes, but with His resurrection, Jesus crushes his head and reclaims authority for His image bearers on earth.

-All Nations Will Be Blessed: God promises Abraham “all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.” (Genesis 12:3b) The opening lines of Matthew’s Gospel show the lineage of Jesus that connects Him to Abraham. Through the blood of Jesus, both Jews and Gentiles (aka “all peoples on earth”) can receive the blessings of forgiveness from sin and reconciliation with the Lord.

As we wrap up this study of the Gospel of Matthew, there is still much to process and deeper layers to be excavated at a future time. Just like the disciples, we are works in progress– we don’t understand everything Jesus says and we often struggle with sin. But, we can take heart from Jesus’ final words to His disciples, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (28:2-b, NIV) What a comfort to know He’s with us through the presence of the Holy Spirit and that He provides all that we need to keep pressing on.

Posts in this series are based on Tara Leigh Cobble’s Knowing Jesus as King.

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  1. https://www.compellingtruth.org/His-blood-be-on-us.html
  2. Jen Wilkin, “Matthew: Crucifixion”, The Village Church Resources, Feb. 13, 2018
  3. Jen Wilkin, “Matthew: Resurrection”, The Village Church Resources, Feb. 21, 2018

(Note, many ideas in this post were inspired by these two teachings from Jen Wilkin.)

Perspective of the King: Matthew 17-19

Continuing our walk through the Gospel of Matthew, this portion opens with the transfiguration. Once again, Matthew gives hard evidence to show Jesus as the long- awaited King of Kings. In this scene, James, John and Peter witness Jesus transfiguring from the Rabbi they know to the Son of Man shining brilliantly in His glorified form and talking with Moses and Elijah. Reminiscent of the baptism of Jesus, they hear the voice of the Father speaking, “This is my Son, whom I love, with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!” (Matthew 17:5, NIV)

In the rest of the chapter Jesus continues to emphasize purity heart and the pursuit of righteousness. He heals a demon-possessed boy, answers questions about paying taxes to Caesar, and emphasizes that the greatest citizens in His kingdom approach Him with childlike faith. Chapter 19 includes an extended discussion on divorce and a conversation between Jesus and a wealthy young man about whole-heartedly following Him.

Sandwiched in the middle of all this action chapter 18 includes three related teachings about relationships. First, Jesus tells the parable of the Lost Sheep:

“What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.” (Matthew 18:12-14, NIV)

One commentary explains, “God does not abandon the 99. They are already safely in His kingdom, attended by His angels, and guided by His Holy Spirit (Romans 8:14; Hebrews 13:5). But His heart aches for those not yet in the fold. So the Good Shepherd pursues the lost sheep, woos them, calls to them, and allows circumstances into their lives designed to make them look up… The 99 are still important to Him, but He knows the flock is not complete without the lost sheep. And a good shepherd always goes after the lost sheep.”1

 In this first illustration Jesus shows the Father’s deep love for each individual person and the effort He expends to pursue and rescue every lost soul. In the next section, He shows our part in restoring “lost sheep” to the fold through confronting sin: “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.” (Matthew 18:15-17, ESV)

The process Jesus lays out escalates incrementally, with each step involving the fewest number of people possible. “Only in rare cases will a Christian seeking to follow the Lord refuse to resolve conflict when the entire congregation is involved… Finally, if the person in the center of the conflict refuses to respond positively even when the entire congregation is involved, then that person is to be considered as ‘a pagan or a tax collector.’ This simply means… removing the negative influence from the congregation.”2

Whether we’ve been personally affected by sin of another or are witnessing how it’s  tainting the body of believers, the goal of addressing it remains the same: to restore the sinner to righteous living. Biblical, healthy confrontation seeks to  reconcile broken relationships affected by behavior that dishonors God.

 While eliminating someone from a congregation sounds harsh and final, the next teaching emphasizes the importance of forgiveness. In this parable, a servant owing a king a large sum of money begs for more time to repay him. The gracious king cancels the debt and allows the servant to go. The same servant then demands a miniscule debt from one of his fellow servants be repaid immediately. When the man can’t pay, the servant calls for him to be thrown in prison. The forgiving king learns this news, summons the unmerciful servant and says, “You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ Jesus concludes by saying “And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.” (Matthew 18:32-35, ESV)

This parable urges us to remember that even when we’ve been hurt or offended, we’re called to forgive. We cannot withhold from others what has been freely given to us—especially knowing it was purchased by the blood of Christ. As far as it depends upon us, the door for reconciliation must always remain open: “Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” (Romans 12:17-18, ESV)

We can’t control how others respond in challenging relational circumstances, but “Christians are called to handle disputes in love, with a goal of restoration. Conflict should be handled according to the steps listed in Matthew 18. This style of conflict resolution is based on a desire for holy living and love for the person who has committed wrong.”3

The Message paraphrase of Matthew 18:18-20 sums up Jesus’ teaching on conflict saying: “Take this most seriously: A yes on earth is yes in heaven; a no on earth is no in heaven. What you say to one another is eternal. I mean this. When two of you get together on anything at all on earth and make a prayer of it, my Father in heaven goes into action. And when two or three of you are together because of me, you can be sure that I’ll be there.”4

The biblical response to conflict stands in sharp contrast to typical worldly reactions such as avoidance, resentment, retaliation, and gossip. It takes prayer and intentionality to change our usual default modes. So, responding to sin and conflict by obeying Jesus’ teaching creates yet another opportunity to reveal His upside-down kingdom to a world that desperately needs Him.

Follow along with our study by ordering your copy of Tara Leigh Cobble’s Knowing Jesus as King.

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  1. “Why Would God Leave the 99 to Find the 1?” gotquestions.org
  2. “How Should Christians Handle Disputes (Matthew 18:15-17)? gotquestions.org
  3. ibid
  4. Eugene Peterson, The Message, NavPress, 1993

Authority of the King: Matthew 8-10

Lingering on the fringe of the crowd, the leper catches Jesus’ eye as people disperse and walk down the hillside. The man approaches the Teacher, kneels before Him and stammers, “Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean.” With compassion and gentleness, Jesus responds, “I am willing. Be clean.” (Matthew 8:2-3, NIV) In a split second, the horrific skin disease disappears and the outcast experiences complete healing. This is how Matthew reveals Jesus’ authority over illness.

Using a mix of action sequences, conversations, and teaching from Jesus, Matthew shows the authority of the King through chapters eight, nine, and ten of his gospel. Christ demonstrates authority over the natural and spiritual realms in many brief stories, including our favorite tax-collector’s choice to leave his life of sin and follow Jesus. Let’s hit the highlights of these three dense chapters.

Chapter 8

After eradicating his leprosy, Jesus tells the healed man to go and show himself to the priest for ceremonial cleansing. He also asks the man to keep the “messianic secret”—not wanting to “reveal His identity as Messiah until the proper time.”1

Next, a Roman centurion (a Gentile) displays incredible faith in Jesus by asking Him to heal his paralyzed servant who is suffering. When Jesus offers to go to the centurion’s home, he replies, “Lord, I do not deserve to have you come under my roof. But just say the word, and my servant will be healed.” (8:8, NIV) Despite his military power and political authority, the centurion humbles himself before Jesus and recognizes Him as the One who is superior in every way. The centurion exemplifies the heart posture of meekness Jesus highlights in the Sermon on the Mount. Astonished at the centurion’s faith and humility, Jesus replies, “Truly I tell you, I have not found anyone in Israel with such great faith…Go! Let it be done just as you believed it would.” Matthew concludes this encounter by explaining, “And his servant was healed at that moment.” (8:10 & 13, NIV) As an outsider, this Gentile reveals more faith than any of the Jewish people Jesus has encountered thus far.

The healings continue as Jesus cures Peter’s mother-in-law of a fever that has kept her bedridden. Many other sick and demon-possessed people also receive Jesus’ healing touch. After witnessing these miracles, two different men pull Jesus aside and declare their allegiance to Him. In both cases, Jesus instructs them to consider the high cost of following Him. “Both men desired to follow Jesus. One was eager without fully counting the cost; the other was willing, but only after his affairs were in order.”2  Seeking the King requires more than enthusiasm and good intentions–it involves focus and sacrifice.

Matthew reveals another aspect of Jesus’ authority during a sudden storm on the Sea of Galilee. As Jesus sleeps peacefully, waves swamp the small boat. Fearing for their lives, the disciples wake Him saying, “Lord, save us! We’re going to drown.” (8:25, NIV) At the sound of His voice the wind ceases and the waves smooth out like glass. Amazed, the disciples respond with awe, “What kind of man is this? Even the winds and the waves obey him!” (8:27, NIV) Seeing His power over the natural world, their awe for Jesus continues to increase.

After their stormy voyage, the disciples and Jesus arrive in Gentile territory. “True to form, Jesus stepped outside of another cultural comfort zone and called His disciples to follow Him there.”3

Not long after arriving, they encounter two violent demon-possessed men who immediately recognize Jesus and shout “What do you want with us, Son of God? Have you come here to torture us before the appointed time?” (8:29, NIV) Revealing both Jesus’ authority and their limited power, the demons plead to be driven into a nearby herd of pigs. When all of the swine rush off a cliff and drown in the waters below, the people urge Jesus to leave. “Two men were finally free, but the people were focused on what was lost. Their value system was revealed and it stood in stark contrast to God’s.”4  I wonder how often we’re like them.

Chapter 9

Matthew continues with more stories of healing that illustrate a variety of responses to Jesus, providing living examples of the Beatitudes from Matthew 5:

  • A paralyzed man receives both forgiveness for his sins and complete physical healing. Teachers of the law accuse Jesus of blasphemy while other people respond with awe.
  • A bleeding woman who has been an outcast for twelve years risks touching the edge of Jesus’ cloak, believing there is “healing in His wings” (Malachi 4:2, NKJV). Recognizing her deep faith Jesus says, “Take heart, daughter, your faith has healed you.” (9:22)
  • Jesus raises the daughter of a synagogue ruler from death. Similar to the centurion, we see a person of authority humbling himself before Jesus, only this time he’s Jewish. (Story also recorded in Mark 5:22-43 & Luke 8:41-56)
  • Two blind men ask for mercy from Jesus and receive their sight. They disregard Jesus’ warning to keep quiet and spread news about Him all over the region, betraying His request to keep the “messianic secret.”
  • A demon possessed man unable to speak receives healing from Jesus. While most of the crowd reacts with amazement, the Pharisees accuse Jesus of using the power of the prince of demons to drive out demons.

Interspersed with these stories of healing, Matthew includes his own conversion. He describes leaving his tax collector’s booth with two simple words from Jesus: “Follow me.” (9:9)

As Matthew hosts Jesus and other “sinners” in his home, the Pharisees display their disdain, to which Jesus responds, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (9:12-13, NIV) Here Jesus re-emphasizes the importance of recognizing our spiritual poverty and of mourning our sin so that we can humbly receive Him. Jesus welcomes all who acknowledge sin and repent of it, but the Pharisees’ self-righteous pride prohibits them from doing that.

Chapter 9 ends by setting up chapter 10. Jesus continues traveling through towns and villages preaching the good news and healing diseases and sicknesses. “When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.’” (9:36-38, NIV)

People today are still “harassed and helpless like sheep without a shepherd”; the harvest is still plentiful, and the workers are still few. Will you be one of the workers committed to sharing the good news with those who desperately need it?

Chapter 10

Although he hasn’t told each of their stories, Matthew now lists all twelve disciples by name as Jesus prepares to send them out on their first missionary journey. Among this varied bunch we see a range of extremes—from unschooled fishermen (Peter, Andrew, James and John) to an educated upper-class tax collector (Matthew); from Simon, a zealot seeking to overthrow Rome by force to Matthew, a tax collector complicit with the occupying government. With hearts humbly yielded to Jesus, His disciples reveal unity, but not uniformity. How can we learn from their example in these times of deep division?

Before hitting the road on their first missionary journey, Jesus gives warnings and instructions to the pairs of disciples going out to preach the good news of God’s kingdom (Mark 6:7). He gives them “Authority to drive out evil spirits and to heal every disease and sickness.” (10:1, NIV) He tells them, “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.” (10:16) He warns them that betrayal, hardship, and persecution await, but reassures them that when they’re called before the authorities “it will not be you speaking but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.” (10:20, NIV)

Jesus reassures them and urges them at the same time: “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell…Whoever acknowledges me before men, I will also acknowledge him before my Father in heaven. But whoever disowns me before men, I will disown him before my Father in heaven.” (10:28 & 32-33). He continues to describe what it means to live in His upside-down kingdom: “Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (10:38-39, NIV)

Through these action-packed chapters, Matthew reveals many truths about God and His character:

  • The Lord is pleased and honored by those who approach Him with faith and humility
  • He has power over the natural world (such as weather), the spiritual world (casting out demons), and the physical world (healing people)
  • He has the authority to forgive
  • He has compassion on sinners and all who are spiritually lost
  • He bestows spiritual power and authority upon those who follow Him
  • He uses those who follow Him to reach the lost

Which story from these chapters resonates with you most? Are you in a storm and crying out for help? Are you sick and in need of healing? Are you worried about someone you love and seeking the Lord’s intervention? Regardless of our circumstances, let’s follow the examples or those who repent of pride, humble themselves, and show reverence and awe for the authority of the King of Kings.

Follow along with our study by ordering your copy of Tara Leigh Cobble’s Knowing Jesus as King.

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  1. Tara Leigh Cobble, Knowing Jesus as King, Bethany House 2024, 65.
  2. ibid, 67
  3. ibid
  4. ibid, 70

Message of the King: Matthew 5-7

This past week has been a rough one in our nation. Violence and deep ideological divisions have dominated headlines. Unfiltered emotions and opinions continue spewing out through conversations, text threads, social media, and news outlets.  They evoke a range of responses—anger, confusion, fear, anxiety. Rather than letting strong reactions lead us, we can discover deep wisdom for responding to these current events by opening our Bibles.

Not surprisingly, the content we’re walking through this week in Matthew five through seven provides timely relevance.  We’ll see how Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount reveals the stark contrast between the Kingdom of God and the kingdom of the world. In it, He calls citizens of His upside-down kingdom to live from the inside out.

The sermon starts with eight statements known as the Beatitudes. Deeper than a spiritual checklist, the Beatitudes show us “Spiritual poverty is square one. We cannot participate in the kingdom of heaven without recognizing our desperate need for God.”1   The statements Jesus makes aren’t just wisdom to be pondered, but mindsets to adopt and behaviors to practice. They are the antidote to our sinful nature. C.S. Lewis explains, “What Satan put into the heads of our remote ancestors [Adam and Eve] was the idea that they could ‘be like gods’—could set up on their own as if they had created themselves—be their own masters—invent some sort of happiness for themselves outside God, apart from God.”

Lewis continues, “God made us: invented us as a man invents an engine. A car is made to run on gasoline, and it would not run properly on anything else. Now God designed the human machine to run on Himself. He Himself is the fuel our spirits were designed to burn, or the food our spirits were designed to feed on. There is no other. That is why it is just no good asking God to make us happy in our own way without bothering about religion. God cannot give us a happiness and peace apart from Himself, because it is not there. There is no such thing.”2

The Sermon on the Mount shows us how to “fuel our spirits” and to live in a way that builds God’s kingdom on earth. Covering a multitude of topics, Jesus’ primary concern is with our hearts and actions aligning with Him. In essence, He’s calling us to live from the inside out–prioritizing integrity and demonstrating joyful obedience to His higher call. He admonishes us to examine our own hearts and to consider the fruit we bear instead of targeting the faults of others.

The opening lines of Matthew chapter five tell us that Jesus saw the crowds, went up on a mountain, and sat down to teach His disciples. The teaching in the Sermon on the Mount is not intended to weigh us down with rules or to tell us how to find salvation but to show the way to conduct ourselves as citizens of His kingdom and members of His family. Learning to live this way is a lifelong pursuit that requires practice, commitment, and focus.

Let’s take a peek at the upside-down teaching from Matthew 5:3-10 (ESV) and see what it looks like to live from the inside out.

  1. “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Being poor in spirit is admitting that you are sinful and completely destitute spiritually. You acknowledge you can do nothing to deliver yourself from your dire situation. Jesus says that, no matter your status, you must recognize your spiritual poverty before you can come to God in faith to receive the salvation He offers.
  2. “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” Those who mourn grieve over the sin that separates them from the Lord. The Spirit comforts people who are honest about their own sin and humble enough to ask for forgiveness and healing.
  3. “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.” Meekness follows the example of Jesus by having the right or the power to do something but refraining for the benefit of someone else. Those who are meek display humility and gentleness. They aren’t weak but have a clear estimation of themselves and their standing before the Lord.
  4. “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.” People who have an ongoing desire for personal righteousness have deep spiritual appetites. They care more about pursuing and pleasing the Lord than winning the approval and admiration of others. Seeking the Lord and applying His Word to their lives satiates their spiritual hunger.
  5. “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.” Those who are merciful understand that God’s mercy has been extended to them, so they give it freely to others. They demonstrate humility by offering others what they’ve received from the Lord.
  6. “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” The pure in heart seek to be inwardly clean. They value the Lord’s holiness and don’t want sin to hinder their walk with Him. They pursue what is right, good, and true. They confess their sins readily and find refreshment in the Lord’s forgiveness.
  7. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.” Jesus gave His life to make peace between God and sinners, and when we can carry that message of peace to others, we are peacemakers. Reconciling broken relationships brings the peace of Christ into the world. Peacemakers experience inward peace with God and pursue outward peace with others. They seek genuine peace rather than avoiding conflict to create the illusion of peace.
  8. “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Those who are mistreated, oppressed or maligned for doing what honors God show the depth of their love and commitment to the Lord. Rather than seeking the praise of people, they crave the approval of their Heavenly Father.

In the world’s eyes, few of these statements would be considered a blessing. However, as followers of Christ, we don’t embrace the world’s perspective. Jesus describes this in John 15 when He explains “If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.” (John 15:19a, NIV) Followers of Jesus don’t belong to the world because our citizenship is in heaven: “You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family.” (Ephesians 2:19b, NLT)

Living the upside-down, inside-out life Jesus describes is difficult, especially when the world around us doesn’t value it. There can be lonely moments when we’re the only people intent on honoring and serving the Lord. Being blessed doesn’t always mean experiencing comfort or ease on this side of heaven but the Sermon on the Mount encourages us to take the long view and embrace the lasting truth the Lord imparts to us in it.

A few summers back I wrote fifteen posts on the Sermon on the Mount, following along with a sermon series our pastor titled “The GOAT” (greatest of all time). For a deeper dive on each topic, click on any of the blue links below.

Beatitudes  Full- length version of the eight-point list above

Salt   Responding to Jesus’ call to be the salt of the earth gives us the privilege and responsibility of having a tremendous impact on our world. We must marinate in God’s Word and let His Spirit flavor our lives.

Light Each interaction we have with others provides a chance to make the world a little better and to shine our lights a little brighter. Invite the Lord to show you where you can shine the light of His love and grace.

Law & Prophets Jesus fulfilled hundreds of prophecies concerning Himself that had been written by the prophets in the Old Testament. He also fulfilled the requirements of the civil and moral laws in Scripture by living a perfect life and the ceremonial laws through His sacrificial death on the cross.

Anger Cooling a hot temper is not accomplished overnight. But through prayer, Bible study, and reliance upon the Holy Spirit, ungodly anger can be overcome. Seek to glorify God and watch your thoughts and relationships change for the better.

Adultery & Divorce  Being faithful in our relationships means guarding our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and taking extreme measures to avoid sin. Despite these teachings in Scripture, most of us have been exposed to the pain caused by divorce. That pain is part of the reason Scripture says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:15-16). Note that it does NOT say God hates divorced people. Nothing could be further from the truth. God’s love and grace are open to us all and there are no second-class citizens in the Kingdom of Heaven.

Yes & No  Next time an opportunity or invitation comes your way, pray first and evaluate whether you have the time and inclination to give it your all. Then, be confident in delivering a clear “yes” or “no” answer and be joyful in the decision you’ve made.

Revenge and Enemies Plot lines about characters retaliating for wrongs committed against them are plentiful. Just do a quick internet search and you’ll find a variety of titles to entertain you and tutor you in the art of revenge.  It’s human nature to want to get even, but it’s not biblical.

Hypocrisy  As Jesus describes giving, praying, and fasting, His message is clear: don’t be a hypocrite. He’s not interested in people who put on masks like actors and pretend to be holy, He wants hearts that are truly devoted to following Him.

Treasure  The only treasure that is 100% trustworthy is found in God’s kingdom. Our pursuit of Jesus enables us to align our priorities with His in ways that are both spiritual and practical. It opens doors for Him to use our time and finances for greater impact and lets us discover the value of lasting treasure found only in Him. And that is “life that is truly life.”

Worry  When fear and anxiety are running our lives, love is repressed. Not being anxious improves our sense of well-being and allows us to express God’s love and grace to others more freely. And isn’t that what our world desperately needs right now?

Judgement The next time you’re tempted to make a quick judgment about someone, stop and think first. What factors might be contributing to their actions and attitudes? Examine your heart and ask God to help you see the person as He sees them. Make time to understand them before being so quick to dismiss them.

Ask, Seek, Knock   Jesus invites us to pray boldly and persistently, but  waiting for God to act can get tiring. And sometimes the Lord’s answers look different than we expect or come more slowly than we want. Read about the six keys that will help you persevere.

True Christianity  Trusting Jesus as Savior and Lord of our lives means daily choosing to walk through the narrow gate. This path is open to anyone who decides to follow Him. It leads to an abundant, fulfilling life that’s unlike anything we can find on the wide road.

A Solid Foundation  In the midst of the tumult, rest assured that building our lives with Jesus as the foundation is the only lasting solution for experiencing peace and hope.

You can follow along with our study by ordering your copy of Tara Leigh Cobble’s Knowing Jesus as King.

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  1. Tara Leigh Cobble, Knowing Jesus as King, Bethany House 2024, 43.
  2. C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, Geoffrey Bles Publishing, 1952

The Narrow Road

Pedaling down the path with my fellow riders, I ignored the flashing red lights and loud beeps emanating from the small GPS unit on my handlebars. Our trip leaders had programmed the route for the day and attached the devices to each of our bikes. We’d been riding through lush meadows and quaint villages in the Netherlands for a few days and as our confidence increased, our vigilance decreased. At an intersection, the path forward had seemed obvious and since the group was ignoring the warnings, I did the same. It wasn’t until we reached a busy road with cars whizzing by that we acknowledged we’d taken the wrong route and that the pre-programmed directions would have circumvented the danger.

To our relief, one of the trip leaders doubled back to stop traffic and wave us across. Our thoughtless decision to ignore his careful planning had put him in peril for our sake. We had no excuse other than pride—we’d falsely assumed that the most direct and obvious path would be the logical choice. Convenience and group-think trumped caution, so we’d charged ahead.

I couldn’t stop thinking about that choice for the rest of the ride. Like flashing red lights, the obvious parallels to the spiritual realm were impossible to miss. It’s easy to follow the path that seems well-traveled, but is it best? How often do we forge ahead with a decision while ignoring the conviction of the Holy Spirit or the truth we know in God’s Word?  When do we rationalize sin and poor choices using worldly wisdom? How frequently do we find ourselves in sticky situations because we’ve followed our own impulses without praying or seeking biblical wisdom?

Perhaps it’s in our attitude toward sex—trusting God’s design sounds impossible and outdated. We ignore His intention to protect our hearts, bodies, and minds and cheapen what’s meant be a unique bond  shared within the covenant of marriage. Perhaps it’s in our approach to money—the notion of tithing or giving sacrificially seems out of touch with today’s economy. We grasp our finances tightly instead of seeing them as a resource God gives to steward for His kingdom. Maybe it’s in how we use our words—it’s easier to let our tongues flow without restraint, whether it’s gossiping, spewing anger, cursing, or taking God’s name in vain. It could be something more subtle, like harboring a critical spirit, an unloving heart, or a prideful sense of entitlement. The examples are endless, but the point is the same—our natural inclination is to ignore God’s truth and follow the crowd.

Merging onto the path of popular culture makes sense in the moment, but Jesus warns us about this route: “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” (Matthew 7:13-14, NIV)

When we choose the wide road or default to the path of least resistance, we’re putting distance between ourselves and the Lord. Sin separates us from God and the longer we veer away from Him, the harder it is to tune our hearts to His gentle nudges. Traveling the wide road points us away from the Bible as the foundation for our lives  and leads us to embrace worldly wisdom based on current trends. That’s why Scripture warns us:

“Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” (1 John 2:15-17, NIV)

Will you consider where you may be veering off course and following the ways of the world in your thoughts, attitudes, opinions, or behaviors? Let the Lord search your heart and reveal anything you’re holding back that’s separating you from abundant life found in Him. Listen to the warning beeps and pay attention to the flashing red lights. Let the Lord step in and get you back on track like my biking guide. Repent, seek forgiveness, and allow Him to lead you onto the narrow path. Let the Lord restore you to unhindered fellowship with Him, then give thanks for His mercy and grace.

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Seated in Heavenly Places

A couple of years ago my son brought a friend home from college to spend Thanksgiving with us. During that week he participated in the rhythms of our family—eating meals with us, sleeping on our couch, helping us prepare for Thanksgiving, and getting to know our extended family around the table. We welcomed his presence, but he was a temporary member of our household for a short season. Because he didn’t share our last name, he didn’t have keys to our house or his own bed. Nor were we paying for his college tuition or planning to give him an inheritance one day. As much as we enjoyed having him, he will never have all the privileges our sons have. 

Being part of a family gives us a sense of belonging and identity along with certain benefits. It gives us legal rights, security, and protection in the earthly realm. But as we read Ephesians, we discover that God gives those with faith in Christ something even better and more lasting: adoption into His eternal household (Ephesians 1:5, 2:19). Included with this adoption is a rich spiritual inheritance and a new position: “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus.” (Ephesians 2:4-6, NIV- italics added)

If you’ve accepted Jesus, then you’re an adopted child of God; you’ve been brought from death to life and have received salvation by God’s grace. And if that’s not amazing enough, you are also seated with Christ in heavenly realms. We can be physically present on earth but simultaneously engaging the spiritual world.1 When Paul prays that the eyes of our hearts will be opened in Ephesians 1:18, he’s awakening us to the reality of the spiritual world that exists all around us all the time. Let’s explore a few highlights of the incredible privilege of being seated with Christ:

-Christ’s position in the heavenly realms shows His completed work.1 He is seated and at rest after fulfilling all of the requirements He came to earth to accomplish: Becoming a man and identifying with our humanity; shedding blood and dying on the cross to atone for our sins; overcoming death to reveal His ultimate power and authority. After making these sacrifices, the Father “seated him at his right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and above every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come.” (Ephesians 1:20b-21, ESV). His seated position assures us He has finished the work required for our salvation.

-Being seated at the right hand of the Father signifies Christ’s place of highest honor and spiritual authority. “And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” (Ephesians 2:22-23 NIV) Being seated with Him is “much like being seated at the VIP table of a Presidential luncheon. We have been given the royal privilege of being enthroned with the Son and will one day partake of His glory.”2

-Being seated with Christ in heavenly places means we have access to spiritual privileges and blessings such as redemption, spiritual insight, and forgiveness. We also have spiritual authority and power to defeat forces of evil.* Paul expands on this a few chapters later in Ephesians: “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:10-12, NIV)

-God raised us up “in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus.” Our honored position seated with Christ displays God’s rich grace and deep kindness. Letting this spiritual truth sink in should change the way we see ourselves and how we engage the world around us. Our position in God’s family is secure, but we did nothing to earn it. It is only through the love, grace, and kindness of God that we humbly receive all the rights and privileges He bestows on His children.

Consider the incredible truth contained in these points and how you might respond in prayer. Do you need your spiritual eyes to be opened more so that you can see God at work in the spiritual realm? Is it time to marvel at the incredible sacrifices Christ made on your behalf and to praise Him for His completed work? Perhaps now is the time to be in awe of His spiritual authority and to praise Him for sharing it with you. Maybe you’ll want to ask the Father to help you understand His spiritual blessings  and power so you can access them more. Or perhaps you simply want to thank God for His kindness—for including you in His family and lavishing you with all the rights and privileges of a beloved child.

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Inspired by Ephesians: A Study of Faith and Practice by Jackie Hill Perry, Jasmine Holmes and Melissa Kruger, Lifeway Press, 2024.

1. Patrick Oben, “Seated in Heavenly Places  In Christ”

2. “What Does It Mean to be Seated in Heavenly Places? (Ephesians 2:6)” 

*Learn more about your spiritual authority in Christ in my blog “Claiming Your Spiritual Authority: The Armor of God Part 1”

True and Rational Words

Following Paul on his continued journey through the Roman legal system, Acts 24 begins with his appearance before Governor Felix in Caesarea. Paul makes his defense against the accusations of the Jews, refuting all claims while leveraging the opportunity to share the gospel in court:

“But this I confess to you, that according to the Way, which they call a sect, I worship the God of our fathers, believing everything laid down by the Law and written in the Prophets, having a hope in God, which these men themselves accept, that there will be a resurrection of both the just and the unjust.” (Acts 24:14-15 ESV)

Governor Felix keeps Paul imprisoned and summons him often for conversation: “And as [Paul] reasoned about righteousness and self-control and the coming judgment, Felix was alarmed and said, ‘Go away for the present. When I get an opportunity I will summon you.’“ (Acts 24:25 ESV) Felix holds Paul for two years, speaking with him regularly but never coming to a personal decision about the truth of  Jesus that Paul teaches, despite feeling convicted by his words. Felix likely believes Paul isn’t guilty but wants to retain the favor of the Jews and hopes Paul will offer him a bribe to get released.1 He puts off making a decision about Paul’s legal situation long enough that he’s eventually replaced by a new Governor named Festus.

Contrasting Felix’s indecision and slowness to act, Festus hears Paul’s case immediately and grants his request for an appeal to Caesar. However, before sending Paul up the chain of command, Festus consults with his friend, King Agrippa on what charges to bring against Paul. (Fun fact: King Agrippa is the son of Herod Agrippa who was eaten by worms and died in Acts 12). In his speech before Festus and Agrippa, Paul shares the story of his conversion on the road to Damascus and adds a few details not mentioned previously, specifically quoting the words spoken to him by Jesus:

“I heard a voice saying to me in the Hebrew language, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads…I am Jesus whom you are persecuting. But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles—to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’” (Acts Acts 26:14-18, ESV)

Paul continues his testimony by explaining, “To this day I have had the help that comes from God, and so I stand here testifying both to small and great, saying nothing but what the prophets and Moses said would come to pass: that the Christ must suffer and that, by being the first to rise from the dead, he would proclaim light both to our people and to the Gentiles.” (Acts 26:22-23, ESV)

Interrupting Paul’s impassioned testimony, Festus exclaims: “Paul, you are out of your mind; your great learning is driving you out of your mind.” To which Paul replies without hesitation: “I am not out of my mind, most excellent Festus, but I am speaking true and rational words.” (Acts 26:24-25, ESV) 

Undeterred by Festus’ criticism, Paul goes a step further by addressing the other distinguished listener in the audience: “’King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know that you believe.’ And Agrippa said to Paul, ‘In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?’ And Paul said, ‘I would to God that not only you but all who hear me this day might become such as I am—except for these chains.’” (26:27 & 29, ESV)

Paul uses intellectual reasoning, deep knowledge of Scripture, and personal experience to persuade these three influential men to believe his claims about Jesus. Despite his thoughtful testimony, each of them rejects the truth he offers. Felix avoids it by remaining perpetually undecided, Festus dismisses it by calling Paul crazy, and Agrippa balks at it with cynicism. Although they respond negatively, Paul never wavers in his passion “to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God.” (Acts 26:18, ESV)

If you’ve ever shared your faith in Jesus, it’s likely you’ve experienced at least one of these responses. Maybe you’ve known people like Felix, who pause when they hear preaching on God’s judgement but remain perpetually undecided about putting their faith in Jesus; or like Festus, who dismiss followers of Jesus as “crazy” because they don’t want to bother thinking deeply about faith; or like Agrippa, who hide behind cynicism and condescension to make themselves feel smart instead of humbly considering Jesus’ offer of forgiveness. Felix, Festus, and Agrippa were worldly rulers with political power and prestige but lost in spiritual darkness. Perhaps as Paul addressed them he was thinking of what he’d written to the church at Corinth. If you’ve been rebuffed while sharing your faith, take heart by reading Paul’s words:.

“For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God…For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength… But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him. It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. Therefore, as it is written: ‘Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord.’” (1 Corinthians 1:18, 25, 27-31, NIV) 

Friends, the world may mock us as fools, but our faith in Jesus is “true and rational” (Acts 26:25). Some may dismiss it, but let’s remain steadfast like Paul–walking in the light of God’s truth and inviting others to turn from darkness and receive the forgiveness of Christ.

1. Jen Wilkin, week 9 video of Acts: The Gospel Goes Out Part 2 by the Village Church.

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The Upside of Conflict

One of my favorite things about the Bible is that it includes messy, complicated stories. We’ve already seen that Acts doesn’t sugar coat walking with Jesus or hide the challenges that accompany our faith journey. The end of chapter 15 provides a perfect example of one of these uncomfortable situations:

“Some time later Paul said to Barnabas, ‘Let us go back and visit the believers in all the towns where we preached the word of the Lord and see how they are doing.’ Barnabas wanted to take John, also called Mark, with them, but Paul did not think it wise to take him, because he had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not continued with them in the work. They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus, but Paul chose Silas and left, commended by the believers to the grace of the Lord. He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.”  (Acts 15:36-41, NIV)

Even people in deep, godly friendships sometimes part ways. From Acts 9 to Acts 15 we’ve watched as Barnabas champions Paul—vouching for him with the other believers when Paul first converts, seeking him out in Tarsus so they can teach together in Antioch, and traveling with him on the first missionary journey. Their partnership seems unstoppable until the disagreement about John Mark causes their paths to diverge. Despite their shared passion for teaching and spreading the gospel, these two pillars of the faith can’t reconcile their opposite opinions over John Mark accompanying them on their next missionary journey. Barnabas wants to give him a second chance to prove himself, Paul thinks it’s unwise since he bailed out early on their first trip. Ultimately, this causes them to split up and continue teaching about Jesus in different places with new ministry partners.

In this instance, neither one had the moral high ground– they had a difference of opinion that didn’t have a right or wrong side. “It wouldn’t have been productive for Paul to take Mark when he didn’t trust him, but Barnabas saw the long-term potential in Mark and gave him another chance.”1 So, they agreed to disagree and parted company, holding no ill will towards one another.

John Mark didn’t let Paul’s rejection define him, however. He must have continued growing in maturity as he traveled with Barnabas, shared the gospel, and rubbed shoulders with other believers. After all, he later authored the Gospel of Mark. Additionally, he appears in several places in the New Testament that reveal he eventually became close to both Peter (1 Peter 5:13) and, surprisingly, Paul (Colossians 4:10). 

“Perhaps the most touching of Paul’s references to Mark comes in 2 Timothy…Towards the end of the book Paul gives a list of personal instructions–mainly comprised of several people to greet and one person in particular to dodge. Among the names listed, we find a final reference to Mark by Paul in verse 4.11. Paul writes, ‘Luke alone is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very useful to me for ministry.’ In Paul’s final hour he requested only five things: for Timothy to come soon (v 9), for him to bring Mark with him (v 11), and to bring his cloak, his books, and the parchments (v 13)….Mark must have undergone significant character enhancement since he had last been with Paul, and Paul had grown in his capacity to forgive and recognize the sanctification process in others. It is a beautiful picture of love, grace, perseverance, and restoration.”2

The growth that occurs in both men and their eventual restoration of relationship reminds us that healthy conflict can have a positive outcome. Here are a few reasons for that:

–Conflict reveals underlying tension: We’ve all been in situations where tension is palpable and resentment simmers just beneath the surface. Addressing the root of the conflict brings clarity and diffuses tension. It moves us from avoidance to acknowledgement, eliminating uncertainty and helping chart the path forward. For Paul and Barnabas, conflict changed their trajectory but didn’t derail their calling. (Paul refers to Barnabas as an equal in his later writings in 1 Corinthians 9:6).

-Conflict exposes personal growth areas: It’s rare for one person to be entirely at fault in a disagreement. So, considering why we’re at odds with another person gives us a chance to do some self-reflection and to determine where we may have sinned or played a part in causing hurt or frustration. Rather than pointing the finger at all the ways the other person wronged us, we have a chance to consider what we can do differently. Perhaps John Mark began to see the importance of keeping his commitments after deserting Paul and Barnabas on their first journey; maybe Paul learned the value of releasing past resentment and giving second chances.

-Conflict teaches us to consider other perspectives: Disagreements often arise when people have divergent approaches or assumptions. When we’re able to share differing views with each other, it helps us to see the situation from an alternate angle. This leads to a broader understanding that can soothe hurt feelings or deep frustration. Perhaps Barnabas’ willingness to give John Mark another chance enabled Paul to see how God could work. John Mark grew in maturity; simultaneously the Lord smoothed out some of Paul’s sharp edges until he reached the point where he could see John Mark in a more gracious light.

-Conflict creates new partnerships: Paul and Barnabas made a powerful and effective team, but their decision to part ways opened the opportunity for them to mentor new ministry partners, Silas and John Mark. With the split of the dynamic duo, two teams could cover more ground sharing the gospel and nurturing new leaders.

In our current cultural moment, conflict has become a catalyst for deep division, finger-pointing, and even “canceling” those with whom we disagree. Even in personal and ministry relationships, many of us avoid conflict at all costs and miss tremendous opportunities for growth. Conflict is a tool that we can use for good and a catalyst for deeper understanding. Let’s stop giving the enemy a foothold by fearing conflict or approaching it with immaturity. Instead, let’s allow God to use it to refine our characters and mature our faith, just as He did with Paul, Barnabas, and John Mark.

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  1. Kevin Laymon, “Paul and Barnabas Split: The Progression of John Mark.” Article link.
  2. Ibid

No Partiality

Continuing to break new ground in the early church, the Holy Spirit reveals the next stage of God’s unfolding plan in Acts 10.  This chapter pivots from Saul back to Peter, who has an unusual meeting with a Roman Centurion named Cornelius that heralds a significant shift in the early Church. When the Jewish apostle and the God-fearing Gentile meet face to face, there’s no doubt it’s been divinely ordained. Recognizing God’s hand at work, Peter explains what the Lord has shown him: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right.” (Acts 10:34b-35, NIV)

Luke’s narrative continues, “While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message. The circumcised believers who had come with Peter were astonished that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles. For they heard them speaking in tongues and praising God.” (Acts 10:44-46, NIV)

“With one simple act, by the power of the Holy Spirit, Peter shows that in the kingdom of God there is no favoritism—the gospel is for everyone.”1 While we may see this story as a significant turning point in our Church history, it also has relevant application for believers today. Jesus’ brother James writes: “If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers.” (James 2:8-9, NIV)

The call to love our neighbors as ourselves appears nine times in Scripture. However, there are moments when we opt out of this command and rationalize our choice to do so. While we may not like admitting it, none of us is without blind spots and unconscious biases. Rather than denying this, we can honor the Lord by asking Him to show us attitudes that dishonor Him and discount others. 

If we’re honest, there are certain people we avoid because of behaviors, attitudes, and lifestyles that we dislike, disagree with, or find distasteful. Beyond obvious differences in race, socioeconomic status, or education, we also make more subtle judgements about others.

It’s natural for people to be drawn to those who are similar and to keep their distance from individuals who cause them to feel awkward, threatened, or uncomfortable. But when partiality shows up in those who follow Jesus, we must admit it and invite the Spirit’s guidance on making healthy changes. While it differs from person to person, here are a few examples that come to mind:

-People who hold different political views. That person who proudly supports a candidate, party, or issue that makes your blood boil is still worthy of God’s love. Jesus’ original twelve disciples included two who were polar opposites politically: “Jesus chose Simon the Zealot, a man who likely desired to forcibly remove the Roman government, and He also chose Matthew, a tax collector working for the Roman government. Both Simon and Matthew, though natural enemies, were part of the Twelve.”2 Two men with opposite political stances put aside their differences through a shared love of Jesus. Like them, we must keep our strong opinions in check and love people regardless of their political affiliations.

-People contending with issues that you don’t understand or haven’t experienced. Maybe it’s the parent of a child with a severe disability. Perhaps it’s a parent with a child struggling with sexual identity or gender dysphoria. Maybe it’s someone with an addiction or mental illness. Often people who are anxious, depressed, or in distress don’t have the energy for good social skills. Sometimes we find it easier to avoid those who have struggles that make us uncomfortable rather than listening, showing kindness, and seeking understanding. 

-People who seem shallow or disinterested in spiritual life. Perhaps there’s someone in your circle of acquaintances who prioritizes fun and socializing above all else. Maybe it’s a person who is always the life of the party or seems to lack depth of character. They hide their hurts and needs behind a broad smile, a boisterous laugh, and deflecting humor. When we judge and dismiss them, we’re keeping the Lord from using us to show them His love. 

-People who have made choices we don’t understand. Maybe it’s someone who leaves a spouse. Rather than reaching out to offer support, we hold back with subtle disapproval. Without knowing the story, we’ve already decided they are doing wrong. Instead of showing compassion or seeking understanding, our avoidance compounds feelings of loneliness or rejection they’re already experiencing; we alienate them from the supportive community of faith they need most.

When we’re quick to judge and draw conclusions based on what we see on the outside of another person, we’re displaying partiality. Maybe, like me, you fear that showing support communicates approval of sins. Perhaps you think withholding affection and warmth equates with maintaining high moral standards. Doing this means missing the opportunity to show God’s love when a person is struggling and feeling alone.

Although not everything described above equates with sin, most of us find certain sins more acceptable than others. But it’s important to remember that God sees all sin as worthy of death (Romans 6:23). We magnify other’s shortcomings and forget that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23, NIV). This makes us prideful, condescending, and judgmental, overlooking Scripture’s assertion that “mercy triumphs over judgment.” (James 2:13b, NIV) We must humbly remember “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8, NIV) So, we’d be wise to take off the judge’s robes and leave that job to the Lord (Luke 6:37). God’s kindness leads to repentance (Romans 2:4) so, our passion should be to share His kindness without partiality. He doesn’t show favoritism, so let’s pray for eyes to see those we may be discounting that the Lord is calling us to love.

  • 1. Acts Part One: The Gospel Goes Out, The Village Church, 2019, 92.
  • 2. https://www.gotquestions.org/Zealots-Bible.html

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Stoking the Spirit

Isn’t there something magical about a campfire under the stars? Wood crackles and pops as flames dance on a cool, dark night. The light draws people to gather and enjoy the warmth. It creates a sense of connectedness among those who savor the glow together—especially on a chilly evening. 

For the past few years I’ve enjoyed participating in this nightly ritual on our church’s annual mission to Mexico. The temperatures were especially cold on this spring’s trip, so gathering around the campfire was even more enticing. At the end of each evening, the only way to encourage the students to return to their tents was to douse the flames. As buckets of water poured out, steam hissed, rising with plumes of smoke from the quenched fire. Once the water extinguished the flames, everyone scattered to seek warmth zipped inside tents and nestled in sleeping bags.

This image of fire makes me think of the Holy Spirit, often characterized as fire in the pages of Scripture. Acts 2 provides the most obvious example of this: “When the day of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place. Suddenly a sound like the blowing of a violent wind came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting. They saw what seemed to be tongues of fire that separated and came to rest on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them.” (Acts 2:1-4, NIV)

Although we no longer see actual flames on our heads, followers of Jesus still have the fire of the Holy Spirit living within us. And just like a campfire, we can stoke the flame of the Spirit, or squelch it. That’s why Paul includes such specific and clear instructions in Ephesians 4 for how to walk worthy of our calling. He says: “And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption.” (Ephesians 4:30, NLT)

Paul follows this statement with some pointed commands:“Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32, NLT)

Paul makes similar statements elsewhere in Scripture: “Do not quench the Spirit. Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil.” (1 Thessalonians 5:19-22, NIV)

Jesus promises that once the Spirit enters our lives, He never leaves. He says to His disciples, “If you love me, keep my commands. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.” (John 15:15-17, NIV) Don’t miss that first part– the way we show Jesus we love Him is by obeying His commands. This lays the foundation for Paul’s admonishing us to walk in a manner worthy of our calling (Ephesians 4:1).

So, what does obedience look like? How do we avoid grieving the Spirit who lives within us? According to these passages, it has everything to do with how we live—our mindsets, the choices we make, and the way we treat others. Bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, slander, and contempt have no place in the lives of authentic followers of Jesus. Instead, we’re called to be characterized by kindness, tender heartedness, and forgiveness.  We’re urged to reject evil and embrace good. 

While I could list many examples and scenarios to illustrate these principles, I think your time would be more wisely spent inviting the Lord to search your heart to make this personal. Consider slowing down and creating mental space to be quiet in His presence. Pause and ask God to show you if there are ways you’re grieving or quenching His Spirit in your life. Give Him permission to reveal any attitudes or perspectives you’ve adopted that dishonor Him. Let Him shine a light on your behavior toward others that grieves His heart.

As the Lord brings specific sins to mind, confess them to Him and cancel permission for the enemy to use them as an access point in your life any longer. Command any darkness or evil to leave and invite the Holy Spirit to come and expand His presence in your life.1

 There’s no way to succeed in walking worthy of Christ by trying harder on our own strength, but with confession and repentance, we’ll experience refreshment from the Lord (Acts 3:19). Conclude your prayer time with worship by praying the lyrics of “Rest on Us.” Click below to listen.

This is the final post in my Ephesians 4 summer series on walking worthy of Jesus. Don’t miss my new series on the book of Acts this fall and winter.

1. Inspired by Tim Hughes’ sermon, “Are You Hungry?” Park Hill Church Podcast, August 6, 2023. Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

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