
We’ve been traveling through Matthew in the fast lane covering three chapters at a time for the past few months. Although this post focuses on a single chapter, it’s a dense one as Jesus draws nearer to His final destiny. Let’s take a look at three key moments from this pivotal part of Holy Week.
Anointing at Bethany
Sandwiched between Jesus’ warning to the disciples that He’s two days from being crucified and Judas putting plans in motion to betray Jesus, Matthew includes a poignant moment of worship.
“While Jesus was in Bethany in the home of Simon the Leper, a woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table. When the disciples saw this, they were indignant. ‘Why this waste?’ they asked. ‘This perfume could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor.’ Aware of this, Jesus said to them, ‘Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. The poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me. When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial. Truly I tell you, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.’” (Matthew 26:6-13, NIV)
Tara Leigh Cobble notes, “How beautiful that in the midst of this story about His final days, Jesus took the time to highlight the offering of a woman—someone who had little value in that culture. It has always been like Jesus to see the lesser, the outcast, and to remind them of their value to God (10:31).1
Charles Spurgeon explains, “She probably did not know all that her action meant when she anointed her Lord for his burial. The consequences of the simplest action done for Christ may be much greater than we think…She thus showed that there was, at least, one heart in the world that thought nothing was too good for her Lord, and that the best of the very best ought to be given to him.”2
Mark’s Gospel includes the same story, with one additional statement by Jesus, “She did what she could.” (Mark 14:8, NIV) A friend of mine screen printed this verse on a tote bag to remind herself of the profound freedom it gives her. She said, “Jesus sees what we offer, however incomplete, inexperienced, inconsistent, or inept and receives it with love as good. “
Sometimes we beat ourselves up for not doing “enough” and forget that God rejoices whenever we turn toward Him and offer what we have. A pure heart seeking to honor Jesus will never be overlooked. Bible teacher Jennie Allen recently wrote: “I just want to remind you today: it matters. Every quiet conversation. Every prayer that feels like it’s hitting the ceiling. Every act of faithfulness when you can’t see the outcome. You may not see the fruit for years, maybe not until heaven, but it lasts.”3 In a world that fixes its gaze on whatever is loud, shiny, and grand, this woman reminds us that God’s upside kingdom values heartfelt service done with humility and love.
All four gospels include a story of a woman anointing Jesus. Most scholars seem in agreement that the accounts in Mark and Matthew are the same event while a similar story in Luke 7:36-50 records a separate event occurring earlier in Jesus’ ministry. However, there is some debate as to whether the story in John’s gospel about Mary of Bethany (sister of Martha and Lazarus) is the same as the one in Matthew and Mark or a separate event. Regardless, the beauty of the act is in the extravagant worship of Jesus despite the disdain and criticism of onlookers.
The Lord’s Supper
Jesus and His disciples gather in an upper room in Jerusalem to celebrate a meal during the lead up to Passover. “While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples, saying, ‘Take and eat; this is my body.’ Then he took a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave it to them, saying, ‘Drink from it, all of you. This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you, I will not drink from this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father’s kingdom.’” (Matthew 26:26-29, NIV)
Using symbolism from the Passover meal, Jesus reveals Himself as the perfect sacrifice whose body will be broken and blood will be shed to atone for the sins of all people. He sets a pattern for the Christian practice of Communion. The root word of “communion” is the Latin word commūniō, which means “sharing in common” or “mutual participation”. It is also related to the Greek word koinōnía, which is often translated as “fellowship” and can mean partnership, joint participation, or community. So, participating in this sacrament identifies us with Christ and reaffirms our bond with fellow believers.
Receiving Communion is a sacred moment to recognize the sacrifice Jesus made for us and to join with other believers in re-affirming our faith in Him. It’s meant to be a solemn time of personal conviction and spiritual reflection, not performed as a mechanical religious ritual. May we never become numb to the familiar words our pastors use as they lead us in celebrating Communion.
Gethsemane
Finishing their final meal together, Jesus takes the disciples to a garden called Gethsemane to watch and pray. Pulling away from the group with His three closest disciples, Jesus reveals dread and anguish about what awaits: “He took Peter and the two sons of Zebedee along with him, and he began to be sorrowful and troubled. Then he said to them, ‘My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.’ Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, ‘My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.’” (26:37-39, NIV)
While the disciples who are supposed to be keeping watch slumber nearby, Jesus pleads with His Father three times to let the cup of suffering pass from Him; despite His dread, He models ultimate submission each time by saying “your will be done.”
Later, when Judas arrives with temple guards to arrest Jesus, one of His disciples rushes to protect Him and Jesus says, “Do you think I cannot call on my Father, and he will at once put at my disposal more than twelve legions of angels? But how then would the Scriptures be fulfilled that say it must happen in this way?” (26:53-54)
Jesus never loses sight of the purpose for which He came to earth. He willingly endures what He dreads, knowing it will bring about ultimate good. In a world that prizes comfort and ease and takes great measures to avoid pain, it’s a powerful example of living according to God’s upside kingdom. Jesus assures His followers that they will also face suffering; may we never circumvent what He can use for our good and His glory.
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- Tara Leigh Cobble, Knowing Jesus as King, Bethany House, 2024, 206.
- Enduring Word Commentary, Matthew 26- Jesus’ Betrayal and Arrest
- Jennie Allen, “Let Me Tell You About My Weekend,” Nov. 5, 2025




